Running into an ex-boyfriend, the inevitable encounter we ladies all dread. We picture the moment it will happen in our heads, and off course, we always look fabulous. However, in reality we usually end up looking like frumpy aunt Franny. Why do we always look our worst when we run into an ex-boyfriend?
I never wear sweat pants to go outdoors. I mean never, except for about three weeks ago when I bumped into an ex from college. Off course, I was wearing pig-tails because apparently the encounter needed an additional dose of awkward. Yep, looking like a six-year old sealed the deal. We shot the breeze and talked about our lives and all the while I just wanted to run away. Why couldn't I have been wearing one of those killer power suits that day?
Have you ever ran into an ex looking less than your best? do share!
I really want to add another fragrance to my rolodex of scintillating scents. For some time now, I've been coveting a fragrance that is warm, spicy, sexy, complex and intoxicating. Am I asking for too much? So, when I came acrossJo Malone's Pomegranate Noir, the description immediately captured my attention: "the sensuality of a daring red dress," "spicy woods," dark and enigmatic." I just had to have it, so I went ahead and purchased the 30 ml bottle.
I was really disappointed after the first spritz, it just smelled like a field of cloves. Anyone who knows me is aware of my dislike of cloves, have you ever eaten one of those things? yuck! However, after a few minutes, the scent began to mellow out and the cloying clove smell completely dissipated. I was intrigued. A few minutes after that, I sniffed my wrist and was flabbergasted. It was woody, a little spicy and totally seductive. It's not exactly the sexy fragrance I was looking for, but it's definitely a contender for my ever-changing and ever-growing repertoire of scents. I look forward to trying some of Jo Malone's other fragrances.
I cannot believe 2014 is already over. Yes, I've had a few derailments along the way but I have to admit, it has been one heck of a year. 2014 was my year of self-discovery. I surprised myself this year, I truly did, and I've had several of those, "Yep, I just did that," and "nailed it!" moments. Not to mention, I fell in love, received my master's degree, and somewhere in between faced and overcame all those little fears that I previously allowed to stunt my personal development. I plan to enter 2015 full of fearless energy and I will ride that wave for as long as I'm able.
I'm ready for you 2015!
What are your plans for tonight? Hitting the town?
Be safe and a rapturous New Year, all! Cheers!
"God gave us our memories so that we might have roses in December."
When I was younger, the future seemed so far away. In many ways, like a fairy tale because the structure of most of my thoughts and yearnings were implausible and consisted of mythical beings like elves, goblins, dragons, fairies and other magical creatures. I assure you, I'm not exaggerating. Those whimsical notions were only exacerbated because my nose was always buried in Charles Perrault's Cinderella, or some other Disney fabricated folly.
As a child, I remember wishing with all my might for the days when I would have to make an adult decision. But now that those days are here, I'm terribly afraid. Afraid of making the wrong choices, utterly rattled about what's to come.
However, what I'm comfortable with is my choice not to be a mother, at least for right now. Lately, I've been bombarded with questions about marriage and motherhood. You can almost guarantee that nosy relatives will inevitably swarm around a late-twenty something woman during the holiday season, venomous stingers prepped and ready to strike. Their sole mission: to coax the childless woman into birthing a new colony. Being the deflecting Ninja that I'am, I brought my career endeavors to the forefront and quickly somersaulted my way into the arms of my sole ally, the one person who truly understands, Stapha. My cousin, Robino.
However, what I failed to realize was that he too had joined the ranks of the swarming honeybees."When are you going to have children?" he said, his brows furrowed. His stung was searing and soaked with heavy puzzlement. I never expected to hear such a question from my uber-independent and somewhat jaded cousin/partner-in-crime. I felt sucker-punched. I was mostly taken aback by his tone because tethered to that innocent inquiry of his was the phrase every woman dreads, "before it's too late." As if there is something unnatural even alien about where I'am in my life right now. It didn't seem to matter that I had just earned a Master's degree a few days earlier. No, the important question was, where is your husband and why don't you have a screaming tot permanently attached to your hip? It also didn't help the matter, that my grandmother reminded me, ad nauseam, that my mother was raising a family by the time she was 21.
Many moons ago, I promised myself that I would never allow anyone to pressure me into motherhood. Yes, the future is here and those questions have surfaced, and seem to be coming at me from every direction. I can't very well put a lid on them. But what I can do is make the decision to deal with these life-altering issues in my own time and in my own terms. I'm so unsure about most of these topics, but that's perfectly ok. The time will come when I will be sure. I hope.
When I was younger, my mother used to buy me these darling french book series called Martine. Each Christmas, like clockwork, I would read the books until I fell asleep. I must have done so for at least ten years straight. Recently, I found the collection of Martine books on amazon and the nostalgia was just overwhelming. What a great tradition to pass down! Doesn't snuggling in bed with your favorite book, and perhaps a mug of steaming hot chocolate sound heavenly? Do you have any special Christmastime traditions?
Have you seen the new Gisele Bundchen commercial for Chanel No 5? She's just stunning! However, I wish that I could muster up the same kind of enthusiasm for the iconic fragrance. My mom has an enormous bottle in her room which she uses periodically, but I never truly developed a liking for it, and I've tried. I would dab it on my wrists and each time, after the initial alcohol scent dissipates, I hoped to detect nuances of spicy, sexy, intricate notes that would make me fall utterly in love with it, but all I ever get is muddled flowers. I'm sorry if this offends anyone, but it just smells like old lady.
Do you like Chanel No 5? Coco Mademoiselle and Allure are my favorite Chanel fragrances. I'm also looking forward to trying Coco Noir.
My boyfriend wears thisYves Saint Laurent cologne, sometimes I snuggle extra close to him because the scent is subtle but also warm, spicy and intoxicating. I remember when I was younger, my mother used to always wear masculine scents. Remember this oldies but goodie? I think I'd like to jump on the bandwagon too. I've been wanting to try this and this yummy musk from Kiehl's. Black XS by Paco Robanne and this Men Energizing EDT spray from DKNY have also peaked my interest. Would you wear a masculine scent?
BBC has assembled the likes of Pharrell Williams, Elton John, Lorde, Chris Martin, Stevie Wonder, One Direction, Dave Grohl, Sam Smith and others to sing the Beach Boy's "God Only Knows," to promote its launch of BBC Music. You know you want to sing along!
To me, fall has always felt like a season full of wonder and magic. For some reason, the shift in the weather feels like a fresh start. I can't help but to feel positively revived by the change of pace, which is funny, because everything feels slower and lazier, but in the best possible way.
Last week, on my way to Cafeteria for Yves' cousin's 30th birthday party, I had to pull my blazer tighter onto me to keep the chilly air at bay. Like the geek that I am, I suddenly felt giddy, with visions of hot toddies, throw pillows and a roaring fire swirling around my crazy brain. And no, I don't even have a fireplace in my house. I don't know what it is about this time of year, I just feel warmer and full of hope, like anything is possible.
Speaking of feeling warmer, I'm in dire need of cozy sweaters. What do you think of thisone from J.Crew?
Disney Princesses have never been so bad. Emmanuel Viola, an Italian illustrator and digital artist turned the prim and proper Disney princesses of yesteryear into total modern day rebels, with piercings and tattoos to boot. No need to come charging on your white steed, Prince Charming! these ladies are certainly no damsels in distress.
My nighttime beauty regimen has been the same for as long as I can remember. I began using eye cream in my early twenties because I figured the best way to avoid wrinkles is to reduce its appearance at an early age. My early prevention method seems to have worked so far because I'm in my late twenties and there are no wrinkles in sight. I know I'm speaking a bit prematurely but as the age-old adage goes "black don't crack."
Since we are about to transition from summer to fall, the shift in weather is going to take a major toll on my skin. I'm bracing myself for dry, flaky skin, dark patches, the works. I'm thinking about adding a new moisturizer to my current skin care regimen. I've being using Olay Regenerist as a night cream but it's a little heavy for daily morning use. I need something lightweight and uber moisturizing. I'm thinking this one or this one from Kiehl's. What's your daily beauty routine? weigh in!
So, my family and I are heading to Florida next week Thursday for my Grandmother's 86th birthday bash! It's supposed to be a surprise but despite our best efforts to hide the upcoming celebration, I know she has already put-two-and-two together, she's just astutely aware of everything that one. I love you Grandma! and I can't wait to celebrate you.
I definitely need some shades to shield my extremely sensitive eyes from the hot Florida sun. Although, it's completely out of my price range for right now, I'm really liking this Oakley aviator from Sunglass Hut.
I hardly ever wear eyeliner but for the past few months, I've been experimenting with various winged eyeliner looks for nights out on the town. Needless to say as an amateur, I've had more failures than successes. Thankfully, I've been binge-watching tons of YouTube makeup tutorials, so I can finally draw a defined line. I no longer look like a toddler doodled on my face.
Can you believe it's already September? I might be ruffling a few feathers when I say this but I'm not sad to see summer go, I'm thrilled actually. Good riddance to sweltering, sticky-and-icky nights and tossing and turning in your own sweat - and hello to crisper air and cooler Fall nights. Do I need to mention, once again, that Fall is my favorite season? These sweaters are perfect for your Fall attire. I like this one from Kate Spade and this shawl cardiganfrom American Apparel is perfect for a cozy night in on the couch.
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